クラスじゃなくてインスタンスを拡張。
class Foo def initialize(obj) @obj = obj end def hello puts "hello" end def method_missing(name, *args, &block) @obj.__send__(name, *args, &block) end end a = [1, 2, 3] foo = Foo.new(a) foo << 4 foo << 5 puts foo.collect{|i| i * 2}.join(",") foo.hello